Change of Action
We hear a lot about change.
There is always someone that comes to our rescue if we are complaining. Someone with words of wisdom like, if your unhappy change your job, change where you live, change your wardrobe or change the colour of your hair.
All great advise, but honestly none of that kind of change will matter if you don’t change the way you think.
Change has to come from the inside, if you want it to matter. This is where we humans go wrong.
Changing up our outside world is happiness that only lasts for a short period of time, because our ‘inner stuff’ is always there.
Change is like a bad rash, it won’t go away until you take care of it.
Beginning to understand how to ‘change your mind’ is about as easy as bungie jumping, because it involves messing with the Ego.
The Ego gets it’s back up very quickly when the word change is mentioned.
Change is the Ego’s worse enemy.
Perhaps there have been times when you’ve had a little feeling inside that something just didn’t feel right. You may have thought about trying to make some changes. You realized there was something in your life that was making you unhappy and you wanted to do something about it.
You felt great about your thoughts and courage just seemed to come out of nowhere. You were ready to move forward with your plans.
Then, all of a sudden fear crept in. Where did that come from? Your mind started racing with all kinds of ‘what could go wrong’, and all of a sudden your ideas are sabotaged. You lost all of that great courage and stopped thinking about the changes you wanted to make.
If you are unhappy, restless, anxious or discontented, then do something about it.
You are responsible for the way you feel. Own up to what is happening to you.
If there are people, situations, circumstances or something in your environment that is having a negative effect on your emotional health, blaming that or them won’t make it better.
If there is a person that isn’t taking responsibility for their own inner stuff, then don’t for a second expect any change from them. Change has to come from you. You are responsible for your life. How you live your life is based on your choices. Choose to be happy and healthy – or not, it’s up to you!!!!
Wanting to feel more fulfilled, wanting to find peace and wanting to be able to smile more often isn’t you being selfish. It is simply you taking care of yourself.
Something that we all should do more often, and more of the time.
Choose to love yourself, choose to respect yourself, and promise with all of your heart and soul that you will never leave you!
Make the changes that you know you need to make.
Sending you courage to change your mind.