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No One Else Can Define You

No One Else Can Define You


Along with my own journey of self-actualization, I have witnessed many great people discover their own paths to happiness and self-fulfillment.

I have noticed many common themes emerge not only in myself but in others as well. One of the biggest fundamental truths in each of us who are walking a spiritual path is the realization that other peoples circumstances and opinions do not define who we are.

You are indefinable. You are the only one in this world who meant to understand who you are.

You know what you like and what you don’t like, what you need and what you don’t need, only you are allowed to have opinions about your Self.

The judgments of others can only define you if you let them. Other peoples views of you don’t matter unless you take them to heart, it is your choice, to care or not to care what other humans say about you.

Do not give away your power by putting energy into negative situations in your life or and certainly do not give your energy to negative people.

Giving away the true essence of who you are to other people, places or things will take away the magic of who you are, you are not meant to let this happen to you.

You are a beautiful human being here in this world trying to find your way. Every day you seek to better understand the meaning of your life.

You long to discover your gifts so you may release them fully into the world, with the hopes of finding peace and happiness along the way.

For some this deep-seated need is buried far below the surface and the Ego has more of a voice than the voice of our Soul.

Our fears become our reality, daily pressures become the norm and facing society and all the responsibilities that come to us seem to take over the natural essence of who we are, it is difficult to smile when stress out weights everything else.

You and I are not perfect, perfection is a man-made illusion, you are a beautiful imperfect being operating in an imperfect world, striving for perfection is a hollow goal.

It is impossible for anyone else to define you, remember this and allow it to become your mantra, you are indefinable and only you have the right to decide what you want and what you don’t want in this life experience. 

Much love and devotion